Seventh
Sunday after Epiphany – Year A
February
23, 2014
Matthew
5: 38-48
[Jesus
said:]
"You have heard that it was said, 'An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth.' But I say to you, Do not resist an evildoer. But if anyone strikes you on the right cheek, turn the other also; and if anyone wants to sue you and take your coat, give your cloak as well; and if anyone forces you to go one mile, go also the second mile. Give to everyone who begs from you, and do not refuse anyone who wants to borrow from you.
"You have heard that it was said, 'You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.' But I say to you, Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, so that you may be children of your Father in heaven; for he makes his sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the righteous and on the unrighteous. For if you love those who love you, what reward do you have? Do not even the tax-collectors do the same? And if you greet only your brothers and sisters, what more are you doing than others? Do not even the Gentiles do the same? Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect."
"You have heard that it was said, 'An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth.' But I say to you, Do not resist an evildoer. But if anyone strikes you on the right cheek, turn the other also; and if anyone wants to sue you and take your coat, give your cloak as well; and if anyone forces you to go one mile, go also the second mile. Give to everyone who begs from you, and do not refuse anyone who wants to borrow from you.
"You have heard that it was said, 'You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.' But I say to you, Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, so that you may be children of your Father in heaven; for he makes his sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the righteous and on the unrighteous. For if you love those who love you, what reward do you have? Do not even the tax-collectors do the same? And if you greet only your brothers and sisters, what more are you doing than others? Do not even the Gentiles do the same? Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect."
Over the last two
weeks I have been spending most of my evenings in front of the
television watching the highlights from the Olympics. On the days
when I've been home during the day, I've often been watching the
events live. Every year it seems there are stories about the triumph
of humanity, the triumph of the human spirit. This year is no
different.
I was moved this
year by the story of an American skeleton racer. Now if you haven't
heard of skeleton before, it's actually rather simple, and something
I think most of us have done in our youth. Get an old fashioned sled
with runners, go to the top of a hill, lie down on your stomach head
pointed down the hill, and go. Of course, in the Olympics it's not
on a hill, it's on a single lane track, formed completely out of ice.
And as fast as we may have been going on our hills in our youth,
it's nothing compared to the 60 mph plus speeds achieved by these
folk.
Now, the athlete's
story I was moved by was Noelle Pikus-Pace. She had retired several
years ago, and made the difficult transition from professional
athlete to mother. She had 2 young children, and was expecting her
third. Unfortunately, that third child was not to be. That tragedy
was enough for her to come out of retirement for one final effort,
she said she needed to concentrate on something else. She had to
balance caring for her young children, her responsibilities at home,
and still train well enough to be competitive at an international
level. She said the only way she was able to do it was because she
knew her family was with her. And they were, after coming back to
the sport her family traveled to every race, every competition. When
she was training, she was often accompanied by her children. In the
end, her return to competition was rewarded by a silver medal, and
her first action after her final race was to run into the stands to
embrace the family that supported her.
One of the things
that was amazing to me was after the four races that made up the
competition there was less than a second between gold and silver; in
fact less than 2 seconds total time was the difference between first
and seventh place. The tiniest little mistake literally may have
been the difference between winning a medal or going home
empty-handed. When a race comes down to tenths, sometimes hundreds
of a second, perfection matters. A little slip here, a wobble there
and all can be lost. In the Olympics, and perhaps sometimes in life
perfection matters.
I remember growing
up how I sometimes heard coaches and teachers respond to my
complaining of having to do something over and over, “Practice
makes perfect.” We all know there is some truth in that. If we
want to get better at something, we need to do it often. When I was
learning to play my trombone I had to practice, and the more I
practiced the better I got. It wouldn't have been possible for me to
just pull it out of the case and play a piece of music if I hadn't
done the hard work of practicing first. Yet, even then, I can
honestly say that perfection was something that I never achieved in
playing my trombone. In fact, perfection is something I don't think
I can claim having achieved in anything, except in one area: I have a
perfect track record in not being perfect.
When I was
reflecting on the texts for this week, I kept being drawn to the
final words of our Gospel lesson, “Be perfect, therefore, as your
heavenly Father is perfect.” Jesus has just finished laying out a
rather long list of statements and re-statements of teachings, we've
heard them for the last few weeks. Don't be angry with your
neighbors, turn the other cheek, love your neighbor, give more than
what is asked. In and of themselves some of these are hard enough.
And then, to top it off, almost like frosting on the cake, Jesus
declares almost offhandedly, “Oh and by the way, Be perfect!” No
pressure there.
I know in my own
life, there are times when my behavior, the things I do and think,
are far from the perfection that Jesus seems to be asking of us.
Does he really expect us to be perfect? Is it even possible? Or is
it just another one of those times when the whole point is to make us
realize we can't be perfect and so we have no choice but to turn and
run toward God's grace?
As so often happens,
the answer may lie in how we understand the word perfect. The
word we translate as perfect comes from the Greek word telos,
a word that implies goal, end or purpose. It's not so much about
being perfect, but “about becoming what was intended, accomplishing
one's God-given purpose in the same way that God constantly reflects
God's own nature and purpose.”1
Jesus is essentially telling those listening to him, “You are
children of the Kingdom, you are part of the living out of God's
reign here on earth, act like it. Be who you were created to be.”
Jesus knows that the
challenges he has laid out are difficult. He knows because he has to
do them too. He had to put one foot in front of the other as he
traveled to Jerusalem and the cross, enduring shame and accusations.
He gave his life for the very people that crucified him, he loved
those who hated him. He understands just how hard it is to love
those who hate us, how hard it is to share of our bounty rather than
to hold on to it, he knows how hard it is to forgive rather than to
hold on to the pain, he knows how hard it is to love rather than
hate, to heal and comfort one another rather than to hurt. He knows.
And yet, he tells us, “Be perfect.” Be complete, be fully who
you are called to be, who you were created to be.
He knows how hard it
is, but he doesn't want us to just pick and choose the things we
think or know we can do. If we only do the things we know we can do,
and shrug off those we know are difficult it's not living into the
desires that God has for us. When we pick and choose, our first
concern is really ourselves – making sure we successfully show God
that we did something right. When we do that, we don't put God
first, we don't trust God – we trust ourselves first. And that is
worse that doing and failing. At least when we do and then fail in
our doing, our first thought was God rather than us.
God
loves you. Believe it! Really, God does. God truly, madly, deeply,
loves and cares for you. Do you believe it? The challenge of faith
is to live our lives as testimonies to that belief. If we believe
God truly loves us, then for us to do and fail doesn't matter – God
loves us. Yet, if we live our lives only trying to do that which we
think we can, avoiding that which is difficult or hard, where is our
trust? Where is our love? Ultimately, it is centered in our selves,
not in God. Our loving God would rather us to fail in our doing,
than to never try to do. It's about being who we were created to be.
Nearly
1700 years ago, one of the early church father's used the sharing of
bread and wine in Communion to make this point clear. Saint
Augustine in the words he used in his communion service added a
simple sentence during distribution: "Receive who you are.
Become what you've received.” The words of Augustine were not so
much a challenge, as they were a promise. Augustine was declaring
that in the sharing of Communion people were receiving the promise of
Christ, that they were children of God, and they were being called to
become the children of God they were.
Being
a child of a parent is sort of a unique thing. We are all the
results of a combination of DNA and chance and God's creative
impulse. There are things about us that are like our father, and
there are things about us that are like our mother, and bits that
remind us of other members of our families going back generations.
Perhaps it's our nose, our hair, the way we walk; but we are all a
combination. We can't choose which parts of us are what make us,
that would be a total denial of who we are as the children of our
parents. Being a child of God isn't something you can do partway,
pick and choose the parts you like and don't like. It's about being
fully a child of God, it's about being the complete child of God, the
perfect child of God you are and were created to be.
One
of my favorite movie series is Star Wars, some people think it's a
perfect story; I wouldn't go that far. I've seen all of the movies
multiple times. One of my favorite characters is Yoda. The short,
green-skinned, pointy-eared, master of the Force who teaches Luke
Skywalker to use the special abilities the force gave him. In one
scene, in the middle of his training, Yoda tells Luke to use the
force to lift a small spaceship out of the waters of a bog in which
it was trapped. Luke fails to lift the ship from the mud it was
trapped in, and begins to make excuses about how he tried but he just
wasn't strong enough. Yoda looks at him and says, “Do or do
not...there is no try.” I think that's what Jesus was also saying.
Be who you are, not
partway, not sometimes, be who you are. Do it, don't try to do it
and only go part way. Do, and trust God when you fail in your doing,
knowing that God forgives and loves you even in the failing to do.
As Eugene Peterson says in his translation, "You are kingdom
people, blessed and beloved by God and called to be salt and light in
the world. Go, be who you are!" Amen.
1http://www.workingpreacher.org/craft.aspx?post=1523