Wednesday, September 4, 2013

Dinner Parties

Fifteenth Sunday after Pentecost - Proper 17 – Year C
September 1, 2013
Luke 14:1, 7-14

On one occasion when Jesus was going to the house of a leader of the Pharisees to eat a meal on the sabbath, they were watching him closely.

When he noticed how the guests chose the places of honor, he told them a parable. "When you are invited by someone to a wedding banquet, do not sit down at the place of honor, in case someone more distinguished than you has been invited by your host; and the host who invited both of you may come and say to you, 'Give this person your place', and then in disgrace you would start to take the lowest place. But when you are invited, go and sit down at the lowest place, so that when your host comes, he may say to you, 'Friend, move up higher'; then you will be honored in the presence of all who sit at the table with you. For all who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted."

He said also to the one who had invited him, "When you give a luncheon or a dinner, do not invite your friends or your brothers or your relatives or rich neighbors, in case they may invite you in return, and you would be repaid. But when you give a banquet, invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, and the blind. And you will be blessed, because they cannot repay you, for you will be repaid at the resurrection of the righteous."

One of the joys of my life is being able to walk with my daughters to and from school.  It’s something that I never thought I would enjoy.  I treasure those 15 minutes each day.  It’s fascinating some of the conversations we have: questions about friends, about lunch, about dinner.  New revelations shared with me that have been learned that day – lessons about the world, about science.  News shared excitedly about a test, or a new book.  I treasure those conversations.  I also find the time at the school, in the playground, before and after school to be a time of enjoyment.  I like to meet some of the other parents, meet the moms or dads of my daughter’s classmates.  Some of those previously unknown families have become good friends.

Playgrounds are fascinating.  I’ve been watching the playground, and everything that seems to happen there for the last few years.  I’ve come to understand that the playground is a smaller model of our society itself, the technical term I suppose is microcosm.  Even in first grade you can see differences and divisions in the kids on the playground.  You can identify the leaders from the followers.  You can easily see the kids who thrive in contact with others, and those that prefer to be by themselves or in smaller groups.  You can see the ones who like to be noticed, and those that prefer to disappear.  You can see the popular kids and the ones who are excluded for any number of reasons.

It’s a sad statement on our world and culture that children so young are able to copy our adult world so well.  And it just gets worse.  By the time high school comes around the divisions are set in place.  People from this neighborhood are “better’ than people from that one.  If you are seen with that group of people, you’re going to pay the price in your popularity.  You are judged based on where you live, what clothes you wear, who your friends are, what music you listen to, the car you drive, even what your parents do for a living.  And you better hope that you are doing all the right things if you want to be able to walk through the halls with a smile on your face and your head held high.

Do you remember what it was like at school?  Do you remember how important it was that you sat at the right table with the right people in the lunch room?  Do you remember the feelings you had when you were invited to a birthday party or a sleepover, or the feelings you had when you heard about the event that you hadn’t been invited to?  Do you remember the divisions between the band geeks, the theater nerds, and the jocks?  Remember how there were seats of honor on the school buses, places that were fought for and sometimes had to be given up?  It’s not that school is so much worse than the world – it’s actually pretty close to how the world tends to operate – it’s just that it’s so much easier to see in the school.  It’s easier to see in other settings too, like when you have a dinner party.

In our text from Luke we find Jesus at a dinner party hosted by a leader of the Pharisees, and I’m sure there were all sorts of people there who were part of the elite crowd.  Jesus had already gotten all the folk present more than a little on edge with his talking about the Sabbath, and his healing on the Sabbath, and his hanging out with a group of people who were uneducated and came from, well let’s be honest, the wrong parts of town.  Maybe here, when he is in a different setting when he is surrounded by the “right people’ he will mind his manners, and keep from being too disruptive.  Yeah, good luck with that.

He gets off to a pretty good start, though.  In his first comments he sounds a lot like parts of Proverbs, offering sage advice on how to be a good person - don’t think too highly of yourself. Be modest. It’s better to start from a lower position and be invited higher than place yourself ahead of others and then be asked to vacate your place so another can have it.  And then, Jesus has to keep going, keep talking.  Hold on to your seats folks, here comes the crazy talk!

"The next time you put on a dinner, don't just invite your friends and family and rich neighbors, the kind of people who will return the favor.  Invite some people who never get invited out, the misfits from the wrong side of the tracks.[1]  If we think that there are all sorts of rules about how to act and interact on the playground and in school, the rules for first-century dinner parties were at a whole other level.  There were rules about who would be invited, who should sit where, what could be served, how it should be prepared, who should serve it; and those were just the easy ones.  Meals were often a reflection of the power and status of those who were invited, and Jesus is saying to invite those who have no power?  That’s crazy talk.  What do you mean it’s not all about me, what I want, who I want to be with, how I want people to see or think of me?

“Jesus talks about a new kind of order, a new kind of kingdom where the tables are turned, the hierarchies are upended, and every person, slave or free, Jew or Roman, peasant or king, woman or man, everyone is welcome, especially the ones at the edges.”[2]  The way things are going to operate in this new kingdom is different than the way things operate now; it’s not about power and privilege, it’s about justice and compassion.  It was political.

One of the phrases we often hear is that religion and politics don’t mix.  But, I’m not sure that’s true.  The root word for politics is polis, it’s a Greek word meaning city or a group of people, citizens.  Are we, or are we not citizens of God’s Kingdom, future residents of the city of God?   If that is the case, is not religion by its very nature political?  Jesus’ political message, his message about life in the Kingdom was that the least likely, the poor, the marginalized, the ones who don’t count, the ones who struggle to keep body and soul together, the ones we look past and look over, the ones we don’t invite or seek the attention of, these ones are the first ones to be welcomed at the doors of the kingdom.  In the honor driven society of the first-century Palestine this was a radical statement, a revolutionary statement.  It still is, even today.

Unfortunately, the church in the last 1500 years or so hasn’t done a whole lot to make this revolution a reality; rather, we have done a pretty good job of ignoring it.  More often than not we have interpreted Jesus’ parables and revolutionary statements about life in the Kingdom as being about some wonderful, beautiful, holy future day; a day that would come in some great apocalyptic end of time battle between good and evil.  Rather than our faith guiding us in our public lives, faith became a private thing.  It was focused on the relationship you had with God, and not so much on the relationship you had with others.  Benevolence for the poor and down-trodden was embraced as a thing of good work and Christian service, and the church has served countless billions of hungry and destitute people through the ages.  Yet, it was rare for the church to question the “why’s” of poverty and oppression; and even rarer to work to change that reality.    As the Brazilian Bishop Dom Helder Camera once said “When I gave food to the poor, they called me a saint; when I asked why there were so many poor, they called me a communist.”

The idea and concept of a separation between our faith lives and our public lives is something we do not see in the life and teaching of Jesus, in the writings and teachings of the prophets of the Old Testament.  “Our tradition, so clearly illustrated in the stories of the bible, tells us that we are to care about the fabric of our common life, not just the comfort of our private lives. We are not about the creation of a utopia, but we are about participation in the common good.[3]

The model for us in seeking to change the ways of this world is found in the one who made the world in the first place.  The way that God desires and wants us to live with and treat one another is the way that God treats us.  God has created us, providing us with all that we need for life itself; God cares for us, forgives us, and has redeemed us – not because of something we can do for God in return.  There is nothing we can give to God that God needs from us other than sharing what God has given us with others.  This is what life looks like in the kingdom.

Fifty years ago this Sunday hundreds of thousands of people were returning to their homes and congregations after hearing the powerful words of Martin Luther King Jr’s ‘I have a dream’ speech.  Reverend King’s words and actions are among the finest examples we have of what can happen when you dare to speak out against the wrongs of the world, when you dare to work to change this place, when you seek to bring the ways of the kingdom into our live and places.  And he paid for it with his life, he and many others.  Life in the kingdom isn’t about doing what is easy, it isn’t about doing what is popular; it isn’t about doing what will bring you fame, fortune and notoriety.  It’s about doing God’s will.

God doesn’t say it’s going to be easy.  But, how easy was it to die on a cross between two thieves?  Amen.
               

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